The Revealing Truth About Zodiac Sign Love Styles
How do I know if they love me?” is one of the most common questions when people look at the stars to unravel the great mysteries of their love life. Astrology has the answer! Does bae or bae-to-be show their affection in a way that fires you up and makes you feel like the only one for them, and they for you? Maybe it’s candy and flowers or perhaps you prefer lots of cuddles instead.
Each of the signs has a particular way of saying and showing, “I love you.” It’s a pattern that some people try desperately to hide, and others desperately try to express, but it’s certainly visible in their behavior. Everyone who plays the game of love has certain “tells” that let you know what’s going on with them, and if they’re hot for you or if you’re gonna stay in the friend zone. Does your love style match theirs? Let’s explore how different zodiac signs express their passion.
Aries Love Style (Aries dates: March 20 - April 19)
You’ll usually meet two types of Aries. One the charging, head butting, power-hungry ram, who’s outgoing and optimistic about the future. The other Aries is the reclining ram, who is happy with things as they are and quietly and confidently pushes forward with their goals, even romantic ones. Both types have the same approach to love. While they’re always eager to slip between the sheets, when it comes to their feelings, they’re generally cautious and approach all adventures of the heart with a plan – they hate making mistakes, or rather, hate having to apologize. Aries is almost always “sizing you up” when the two of you are together, and they’ll only confess their relationship intentions when they’re sure they won’t be rejected. Once they know you won’t, they are 100 percent ready to get things moving in an emotionally deeper direction.
Taurus Love Style (Taurus dates: April 20 - May 20)
You may not know that Taurus the “bull” is one of the most amorous and sensual signs of the zodiac. They’re quite sure of themselves and have plenty of rules that guide them in their affairs. Taurus is cautious, not about making mistakes, but about making commitments to things that won’t last. Being reliable like the other Earth signs, they’ll almost always be glad to help you with whatever you ask, so that in itself is not a sign of love. But if a Taurus tries to set the mood with a bangin’ playlist or your favorite emo band when you’re around, or tries to appeal to your emotional side, or makes those sweet little gestures like touching your arm or hand at dinner, you know that the bull’s heart has opened, so hop right on in there!
Gemini Love Style (Gemini dates: May 21 - June 20)
Gemini is hard to read when it comes to figuring out their feelings – it’s easy to be fooled. They’re so friendly that when you’re with them, you might think that they have a thing for you, but it may be that they’re just trying to keep the mood up to keep you around. They absolutely hate being alone. So, what are the clues? Gemini’s like doing a lot of things at once, so if you’re in a one-on-one situation with a Gemini and they put their phone in airplane mode, that’s a hella good sign. They are adaptable, happy to do or say something that makes you feel good and can be quite free with compliments or praise. But they can be flighty, so if they’re always on time to hang, and never too busy to get together, then it’s love.
Cancer Love Style (Cancer dates: June 21 - July 21)
Cancer is a moody sign that tends to move between highs and lows but is very committed to love and romance as the foundation of home and family life. If you’re interested in polyamory or on open relationship, give Cancer a pass. It just ain’t their style. Monogamy is their sweet spot, and they truly appreciate getting attention, and giving it. If the Cancer in your life makes every effort to take care of you, and wants the best for you in any situation, you know that they love you. Even an invitation to spend time with them outside of a public place is a positive sign. In other words, if a Cancer openly shows that they trust you can be pretty sure that they’re saying those three words in their heart, even when they’re not saying it with their mouth (maybe it’s too busy kissing you!).
Leo Love Style (Leo dates: July 22 - August 22)
Leos love attention and will ask a lot of others so their own lives easier and more relaxed. Look for the most dynamic person in the room, the center of everyone’s attention. Bet they’re a Leo! So how do you know if you’re special or just one of the crowd? Well, if a charming and regal Leo asks you for favors, this doesn’t mean they truly care about you, it just means that they like being loved. Ouch! But, fortunately, they like loving too. If a Leo is generous with their time and attention toward you, this is their best tell. If they reach out and touch you, either figurative or literally, it means that the interest is there. If they fawn over you and want to spend most of their time with you, it’s a really good sign; if they call and don’t want anything from you it’s even better.
Virgo Love Style ( Virgo dates: August 23 - September 22)
Virgos are a bit quirky when it comes to expressing love. They can be picky about who they commit to, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But if you’re looking for a partner who always expressing their affection, Virgo ain’t it. Those important three little words won’t get used often, unless their using them as an expression of friendship or praise. So don’t look to their speech for any clues. Their behavior toward you is the best “tell.” If a Virgo regularly tries to share something they know or enjoy with you, then that’s a good sign. If they go out of their way to do favors for you, especially if you’re under the weather, that’s a better sign. If they express an interest in doing things for you that takes time and money away from their other interests or commitments, that’s the best sign of all.
Libra Love Style (Libra dates: September 23 - October 22)
Those with the zodiac sign of Libra are always good at looking and acting in the most inoffensive way possible – they like to be liked. They’re trustworthy, and you can believe almost anything they say. They’ll also be quite honest, and they love beauty, harmony and balance in all its forms. Libras take their time to make up their minds, but once they’re sure of something, that certainty guides what they say and do, and more importantly, their relationship style. If they show any signs at all of being open to having a relationship, they almost certainly are – but they’ll probably tell you, rather than keep you guessing. If they take an interest in you, or constantly praise you in an everyday situation when you’re alone, this is a really good sign that the seeds of love are planted and ready to grow.
Scorpio Love Style (Scorpio dates: October 23 - November 21)
Scorpios have a reputation for being mysterious, but that’s because their emotions run deep, and they don’t like to put them on display. Most Scorpios usually have a quiet, but intense and direct, nature. But, don’t expect to get an instant answer if you ask them if they care for you. If they have an interest in you, they will let you know – you won’t have to hunt for the clues or ask. Keep in mind that it’s hard for them to be openly affectionate, especially in public, so when you’re dating a Scorpio, don’t expect a lot of PDA. They’re strong and don’t like superficiality, so they won’t use those three little words without meaning it. But if they share their feelings and secrets with you, you can be pretty sure that the game of love is on, and you’d better play for keeps – don’t get stung!
Sagittarius Love Style (Sagittarius dates: November 22 - December 20)
Sagittarians can be brash, outgoing and adventurous, and they like to play pranks and have fun with people. They often blurt out the wrong thing, and may seem insensitive toward others, and that includes you. They will test the waters a lot to make sure you care. The archer will openly declare an interest in you if you’re bold enough to show them that you’ve got a thing for them, because in the face of love, watch out! Once a Sagittarian knows you’re interested, you’re in their sights. They’ll fire that arrow right at your heart, and if it doesn’t hit the target, they’ll take another shot. They like being in a committed relationships (no swinging for them!), and if they love you, you need to be ready to feel the heat, baby, because when it comes to love, this Fire sign doesn’t play around.
Capricorn Love Style (Capricorn dates: December 21 - January 19)
If you like steady and reliable, Capricorn is for you. As Earth sign, they’re stable and dependable. They like being the boss, and like having friends and partners who are ready to support them. They can be bosses without being bossy, and they definitely like being in charge of any situation. When it comes to love, they can be quite patient. Its rare to meet a Capricorn who jumps into relationships. And they’re notoriously hard to read, so you may have to dig to get the truth. One sure-fire sign? If they have you meet their mother. If the two of you get along, then you can be sure that love is in the air.
Aquarius Love Style (Aquarius dates: January 20 - February 17)
Aquarius is a bit hard to fathom when it comes to the game of love. Aquarius is a friendly sign, and loves being committed to others. But if you go to a party or other gathering with them, it may seem that they’re paying more attention to their friends than they are to you. No fun. Then you start thinking you’re just arm candy. And then you wonder if they’re serious about your relationship at all. Only the super-secure need apply. Aquarians enjoy spreading their love around. They usually have a vision of their perfect life, and if they love you, they’ll expect you to fit in. Nevertheless, they are among the most lovable people in the world and will openly express the love they feel for you in their own unique way. You’ll just have to figure out what it is.
Pisces Love Style (Pisces dates: February 18 - March 19)
Pisces may be the most magnetic sign of the zodiac. They have a mysterious attractiveness and a way of making themselves desirable that is quite powerful. They can’t stand being alone and love to share their experience, happiness and sense of fun in every way possible. Sounds like fun! The downside? They’re very easily distracted and almost always have so much going on that other people think they’re unreliable. Their “tell” is hard to recognize because they will do unexpected things. Its hard to read their signals – are they kidding around or being serious? Pisces people keep so much of themselves hidden. But once they’ve decided that they love you, they somehow become easier to read and understand and your connection becomes stable, deep and satisfying, if you hang until that happens.