How to Steal the Heart of Any Zodiac Sign

There is nothing better than feeling truly seen and understood by your partner or crush. It's an invigorating and exciting feeling to meet someone who you connect with and feel curious about on a soul level. Your crush's sun sign reveals a lot about their heart, their passions, and their desires. In astrology, the Sun, points to our will, our identity, and our potential. In love, it is paramount to draw out each other's best qualities and to work to understand what it is that your lover's heart wants, needs, and moves towards. Find your lover's sun sign below, and use this guide to seal the deal and steal their heart.

Aries: (Aries Dates: March 20th – April 19th)

Your Aries star sign lover needs adventure and excitement. They may not always want to make plans ahead of time, but if you can keep up with them and their sometimes epic date ideas, you will ignite their fire sign passions and open the door to their restless and courageous heart. As a cardinal sign, Aries lovers want to feel in charge of the relationship. They want to feel as if they are the only person in the world when they are with you, but equally important to this, when apart, they need plenty of personal space and alone time. Aries people seek action and boldness from their partners, and are swept off their feet by those who are willing to take risks for their love. Show them you're game and their heart will be yours in no time!

Taurus: (Taurus Dates: April 20th – May 20th)

Taurus lovers are sensual, loyal, and leisurely in relationships. At their core, they want a partner who is moved by the small things in life, and who can appreciate their love for all things natural and erotic. Depending on your particular lover's personality, your Taurus sweetie may love a contemplative walk in the woods, or they may be more interested in a romantic candlelight dinner at your favorite restaurant. Old-fashioned in their approach to love, Taurus is one of the earth signs, wanting to take it slow and to make sure the connection is genuine before opening up. This zodiac sign can be stubborn about their needs, desires, and pace when it comes to love. If you can surrender to profound intimacy, cuddling in bed all day, and be patient with their laid-back approach to life, you will slowly but surely win a love match with your Taurus crush.

Gemini: (Gemini Dates: May 21st – June 20th)

Gemini is one of those zodiac signs which is hard to pin down, but just like everyone else, Geminis want lasting love too. Engage your Gemini crush with your irresistible wit and lighthearted intellectual debate. Stay open, curious, and flexible with your Gemini lover and always treat them as an equal in conversation and in bed. Taking a playful approach will boost your compatibility with Gemini. Don't let your jealousy get the better of you if they are flirting with everyone at the party – air signs just can’t help it. Let them know you care by giving them the space and freedom to have fun, and, in a quiet moment, remind them, that at the end of the night you will be there to talk dirty to them in bed. Your love life with Gemini will be based on trust and openness; show your Gemini crush that it's the real deal, and this zodiac sign’s fickle and brilliant heart will be yours.

Cancer: (Cancer Dates: June 21st – July 21st)

Loving water signs like Cancer takes trust, vulnerability, and an appreciation for the sentimental. Cancers are most comfortable at home, and will likely have a cozy and inviting space that they will want you to appreciate. More than the other zodiac signs, Cancers have a deep and emotionally complex inner life that they will want to feel comfortable sharing with you. Ask them how their heart is and mean it. Stay interested in their feelings even if they seem to change as quickly as the tides. If they retreat into their shell and seem hard to reach, don't distance yourself. Tell them about your childhood, or ask them about theirs and let them know that your heart is always open. Zodiac matches for Cancer depend on your depth of emotional engagement and the strength of your compassion. Prove to them that you are a trustworthy and safe home for their heart and you may just find that you can be soulmates

Leo: (Leo Dates: July 22nd – August 22nd)

Astrologically, your Leo lover needs to feel adored, admired, and occasionally, even worshipped. They will want to know that you are all in, and that they are the apple of your eye. When you spend time together your Leo crush needs to feel like the center of your universe, and like you are proud to be with them. Give genuine and thoughtful compliments that speak to their beauty, their intelligence, and their quirks. Although you may feel like it's always about them, that’s an occupational hazard of loving the fire signs. If you are doing your job right, the strength of their heart and their deep capacity for love will be showered upon you. Let out your inner child out and get playful with your Leo lover. Sing, dance, and skip down the street to show them how much you enjoy their presence. Leos love love, and if you can make them feel truly seen and valued, the most golden heart in the zodiac will be yours forever.

Virgo: (Virgo Dates: August 23rd – September 22nd)

Virgos are all about self-actualization. Earth signs want to know that their potential partner is doing the work, and that they can take care of themselves. When you fall for a Virgo, show them that you have deep and sincerely held values. A good zodiac love match for Virgo will need to be healthy, thoughtful, and organized. This doesn't mean you have to be perfect, but the more you can show your Virgo crush that you value yourself, your life, and your goals, the more your compatibility will grow. If your Virgo lover seems nit-picky or overly-critical, gently remind them that you are doing your best and that self-growth and transformation is of deep importance to you. Give them a quality of attention that they can feel on a soul level and let them know that you are up for the work that is love, and their noble heart will be yours for the long run.

Libra: (Libra Dates: September 23rd – October 22nd)

Your Libra crush is likely a master of love and relationship. Astrology shows that Libra values connection, harmony and fairness above all else. Libra is an air sign, and air signs can be the life of the party, but most important to your Libra star sign sweetie is the insight, warmth, and intellectual stimulation gleaned from one-on-one connection. Listen deeply to what your Libra lover says, and show heartfelt gratitude for their generosity of spirit, deep humility, and passion for heart-centered justice. Although their propensity towards paradox might occasionally rub you the wrong way, take a deep breath, open yourself to both sides of the story, and try to find a compromise. Remember, love compatibility is a two way street. If you can let your Libra lover flirt to their heart's content, and be patient with their sometimes painful deliberation when it comes to commitment, their artful and harmonious heart will eventually be yours.

Scorpio: (Scorpio Dates: October 23rd – November 21st)

Scorpio lovers are not for the faint of heart – Scorpio is one of the zodiac signs with a reputation when it comes to romance! If you want to steal the heart of a Scorpio, you will have to open yourself to the deep, mysterious, and sometimes dark forces at play in the relationship. Meet your Scorpio lover where they're at, and let them in on your subconscious desires and longest-kept secrets. Although your Scorpio lover may want to engage in power games, manipulation, and melodrama, show them you're invested and that you can see their deeper motivations and longings. Astrological compatibility with a Scorpio means appreciating their emotional intensity. This zodiac sign transforms everything, and that includes you – show that you are willing to take that risk and your hearts will in no time merge as one.

Sagittarius: (Sagittarius Dates: November 22nd – December 20th)

Loving a Sagittarius is one of the most rewarding, exciting, and inspiring experiences life has to offer. Fire signs like Sagittarius are game for just about anything, and they do it all with an optimistic, abundant, and adventurous attitude. Engage your Sag lover in a philosophical conversation after a long hike, and don't forget to bring the wine and the fire-starter. If they seem a bit flighty or hard to pin down, give them space and cultivate a lightness when you are around them. Sagittarius is one of the most restless astrology signs, but if you can open your mind to their wisdom and show them that your paths as seekers align, their expansive and luminous heart will shine brightly upon you.

Capricorn: (Capricorn Dates: December 21st – January 19th)

If you fall for a Capricorn, be sure to act responsibly. Earth signs like Capricorn do not like to be strung along, and they want their time and energy to be respected. If you make a plan, keep it, make sure you are on time, and always bring your best self to the table. This will help boost your love match potential and compatibility with this demanding zodiac sign. Capricorn lovers are in it for the long haul, and they want to be sure you are too. This may, at times, come off as negativity, pessimism, or harshness, but they just want to be sure that you take the relationship seriously and that you are up for the work that is love. Let your Capricorn crush know that you value them, and that you want to build a life together, and you will one day be sure that their heart is yours.

Aquarius: (Aquarius Dates: January 20th – February 17th)

Aquarius lovers can be hard to understand. They often have a deep love for humanity, but like their fellow air signs they might keep a distance from individual people, especially if there is the potential for love. When you fall for an Aquarius, know that patience will be of utmost importance if you want to be more than just friends-with-benefits. Earn this zodiac sign’s trust by cultivating a deep friendship first, and let the intimacy slowly grow from there. Engage them about the social justice issues you are passionate about, work hard to understand their thought patterns, and show them that you are always considering the systemic forces at play. Although their detached aloofness may leave you wary, compatibility with your Aquarius will increase if you can let them know that your love is pure, rather than attached to outcomes or outdated narratives. Tread lightly but genuinely with this zodiac match and one day their heart will truly be yours.

Pisces: (Pisces Dates: February 18th – March 19th)

Water signs like Pisces love with a deep love and sometimes all consuming love. Loving a Pisces entails that you meet in the watery depths of their soul, and it can often be a quite mystical experience. They tend to live in a world more dreamy, poetic, and pure than most, and thus, falling in love with a Pisces can be a truly romantic experience. That said, be sure that you don't fall too far into the realm of fantasy with your Pisces dreamboat. Keeping one foot on the ground is vital for compatibility with a Pisces - let your Pisces lover know that you can both keep them grounded and understand them. Meet them by the moonlight ocean, confess your love through streams of joyful tears, and their divine heart will be yours forever.

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